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How does your job or career path affect your lifestyle? We are taking an in depth look at how people’s career choices affect their finances, time, relationship, family, stress level, and happiness.

The results will be shared via this website, articles via our media partners, Facebook, and Twitter. Please click here to participate in this interactive survey and find out how you compare to others around the world!


We have thousands of "answer any way you want" responses to provocative and revealing questions. Topics range from people's number one sexual fantasies to the deepest darkest secrets they're keeping from their partner. We'll be sharing these responses with you and giving you the opportunity to offer your own answers. All answers are completely anonymous.

Take a peek into some of the response's to the question "What is a secret the you haven't shared with your partner?" here.


YOU Got Challenged is an online platform that offers you and your partner a series of relationship challenges. The challenges are designed to hold the two of you accountable in everything from sharing affection to striving for fitness goals. It's perfect for couples who want to have a little fun and who are up for a challenge! Sign up and start a challenge today!


With the abundance of data we possess, it's possible to show you how your normal compares to your peers. All you have to do is answer a few questions. For example, if you're a 40 year old female who works full time, and who has been in a relationship for ten years, and has kids, you'll be able to see how your relationship compares to other women who fit the same profile. We'll be changing this question out every so often. The first one will show you how you stack up to your peers in happiness.


Be a part of the largest relationship study ever conducted and learn how your normal compares to the rest of the world, simply by taking our interactive survey. This survey is designed to show you how your normal compares if you are in a relationship or single. If you are single, you'll get a better idea of what's normal in dating and single life, and if you are in a relationship, you'll get a separate set of questions to see how your relationship stacks up to the rest of the world. After every couple of questions, you can find out how your normal compares, and there are over 15 topics to chose from after the core questions. Pick one or more topics that range from sex to money in dating or relationships. Click here and enjoy!


We are still gathering research and relationship material for our second book "The Normal Bar: for Singles and Dating".  Click here to participate >>

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